"RESPECT YOURSELF AND OTHERS WILL RESPECT YOU"~~

If you really want someone to respect you then first learn to respect yourself..You responsibility to yourself means refusing to let others do your thinking..your talking...
Self respect is a fundamental for a great life..To develop self respect you have to cultivate self confidence to deal with whatever life throws at you..
Self respect is not an egoistic feeling of superiority rather it is an inner feeling of self confidence.
There is always a pressure from society..from parents..from relatives to become a person of their choice..but self respect only comes from being true to your inner feeling and calling..Begin to create boundaries for yourself that shows others that you have self respect..If you create lines for what is acceptable to you or what is not it doesn"t mean you are a bad person rather it shows you respect yourself enough to make it clear what you allow and what you won't..
Just because others people wants you to behave in a certain way doesn't mean they are right and you should behave that way..Don"t be a doormat..Everyone needs to follow their own path..You have the right to express your opinion..your feelings..no matter if others respect your decisions but you do..Maintain your self respect..
Are you really come in this life to please other people or to live your own life?..Give it a thought//
Just to please others you don't need to sacrifice your self esteem..No relationship is worth sacrificing your self respect and dignity..When someone attack your self esteem and you stay silent..it means somewhere you are crushing your soul and it is a trait of a true coward..Always stand up for yourself..You may not win every battle but atleast everyone knows what you stood for YOU..
Always work with the best intentions..Even if things go badly..don't feel bad..Never equate your self respect with social standing and wealth..Do your work with sincerity and gain self respect from that..
Never feel jealous of others and never compare your success and life with others..Your self respect doesn't depend on being better than others..Feel happy for other's success and  feel good about your own journey of life..
Never lose your confidence when someone criticise you or attack your self esteem..always deal it in a nice way..Sometimes people do such things because they are aware of your talent.. virtues and potentials even if you are not ..So always take criticism on a good note..You are always better than others..
Learn to respect yourself..Love yourself..Only by self respect you will compel others to respect you..maintain your dignity..stay confident..

SHUKRANA GURUJI👏👏
LOVE U GURUJI❤