Have u ever noticed that the more special you treat someone..the more that someone takes you for granted~

As we were taught how to be kind and generous towards others..how to help others when they need you most..but sometimes people might take advantage of your generosity and your kindness..The reason why people take you for granted is because they assume that you are always there for them..no matter how much they push you away..you would again come back to them...>>
It is the reality of life that when we become over generous and kind hearted..we always get hurt from our loved ones because we make them an integral part of our life where we share their emotions and their problems just like ours..We always check upon them to know about their well being..We get hurt when we find that someone is not appreciating your kind behaviour rather they are taking it for granted..>>
Being taken for granted is the more ugliest feeling one can ever experience..But surprisingly it can be taken as a compliment as you have become a comfortable and trusted element in others life..
There comes a time when u have to put your foot down and say..hold on...I'm not going to be taken for granted anymore.
�The best ways to deal with this problem are..
�Learn to say no to others..As we always think that if we say no to someone..it may sound rude and arrogant..U need to keep aside this fear..
�Don't be nice all the time..dont be too readily available to people..be nice to others but show your firm attitude sometimes whenever required..
�Whether it is a business or relation..don't shop up..let your absence speak..let they acknowledge your importance in your absence..
�Go face to face and do one on one chat with the person whom u think is taking advantage of u..tell them what wrong they are doing..
�Don't be emotional by thinking how the other person feel if i will do this way..u have to keep your emotions intact for sometime..
�Introspect the situation by examining others perspective and the reasons behind such behaviour of others..
�Don't take others for granted...Learn to appreciate what you have before time makes you appreciate what you had.”

Love u Guruji💞